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NOT AT WAR:
LIFE BEYOND SURVIVAL MODE

Discover peace after the battle. Not At War is a movement for those who have fought to survive and are now ready to truly live healed, whole, and free.

My Story

I understand what it feels like to be in a constant state of battle against addiction, past trauma, or the everyday hardships that leave you feeling defeated. For a long time, life felt like a war to survive. But what if it didn't have to be? "Not At War" is more than a name; it's a movement built on the belief that peace and purpose are possible.

 

I’m here to share a message of hope, inspiring you to move beyond survival mode and into a life where you can heal, find peace, and truly thrive. It’s a journey from fighting to flourishing, and we're with you every step of the way.

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A Story of Healing, Hope & Becoming

Dive into Ashli Yvonne’s deeply personal memoir a journey of transformation, courage, and rediscovering purpose. Paired with an interactive workbook, this release is more than a book  it’s a companion for your own growth.

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​Learning to See Beauty in the Brokenness

Ready to dive into Ashli’s incredible memoir that encourages you to reflect, heal, and rise above life’s toughest chapters! Coupled with the workbook, you won’t just read her inspiring story, you’ll be motivated to write your own!  

LIGHTS

The Official ‘NOT AT WAR’ Workbook Is Now Live on Amazon!

Unlock a journey of self-discovery and inner peace with the Official ‘NOT AT WAR’ Workbook. Packed with practical exercises, reflection prompts, and inspiring guidance, this workbook helps you navigate life with calm, clarity, and confidence. Now live on Amazon, start your transformative journey today!

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Shop Words, Stories & More

From inspiring books to beautifully crafted author merch discover a curated collection designed for readers, dreamers, and storytellers alike.

Upcoming Events

Join powerful gatherings designed to help you heal, grow, and step into your purpose. Each event is a safe space to connect, learn, and live beyond survival mode.

Love For Not At War

From live workshops to virtual talks, each event is crafted to awaken your strength, heal your heart, and empower your next chapter.

This book is a beautifully told, painfully true story of moving from a life of survival into a life of joy and peace. Ashli's descriptive sentences are purposeful, with free use of metaphors that actually put you directly in her shoes; this is a rare memoir that fosters genuine connection with the reader, that feels relational and not just one-sided. Ashli's notes at the end, her practical guide after the epilogue, are a useful how-to for regulation.

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Danielle Cummings | Director at Artists in Christian Testimony International

Speaker & Workshop Bookings

Inspire, educate, and empower your audience with a talk or workshop tailored to your organization's needs. I offer engaging, insightful, and heartfelt presentations on topics of inner healing, trauma recovery, purpose discovery, and building resilience

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One-on-One Coaching: Find Your Clarity

Are you tired of fighting the same battles? Do you know where you want to go but feel stuck in how to get there? Working together in a one-on-one setting is the fastest way to move from confusion to clear, purposeful action.

        Heal the Roots of Stress: 


Identify the core beliefs, past trauma, or emotional baggage holding you back, giving you a renewed sense of peace and inner freedom.

        Build Unshakeable Resilience:


Develop practical, daily strategies to manage anxiety, overcome setbacks, and maintain a strong, focused mindset.

        Define Your Next Chapter:


Move past recovery or transition by setting compelling, concrete goals for your life, career,

or relationships.

        This is not passive therapy: 


It is an active partnership designed to accelerate your personal and professional growth.

Book Me For Your Next Event

Help your community or team move forward with a renewed sense of clarity and strength.

Recovery Centers

Faith-Based Organizations

Corporate & Community Events

Conferences & Workshops & more

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Ready to Begin Your Journey?

You’re not alone in this journey. Find peace, purpose, and healing one step at a time.

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